The gift is someone asking
Ask him what he wants for his birthday and he says he’s fine. Ask about the summer he worked the loading dock and you lose an hour. That second conversation is the gift.
A Fablr biography gives Dad a year of conversations with a biographer that asks good questions and remembers his answers, and gives the family a hardcover of his stories at the end.
Why it works for dads who don’t talk about themselves
- The questions are concrete: the car, the boss, the house on Elm Street. Those are easy to answer, and the stories come with them.
- He tells one story at a time, whenever he likes.
- Next time, the biographer picks up where he left off.
- If a detail comes out wrong, he says so, and the corrected version waits on the page for his OK.
What he does
He opens Fablr on a phone, tablet or computer, presses one button and talks. If you buy it as a gift, you can handle the setup. He opens a private link, with no account, no password and nothing to download.
What the family gets
A full-color, 8.5x11 hardcover of his stories, with a code on each recorded chapter that plays him telling it. People who come up in his stories can add what they remember.
Questions to start him off
- What was the first car you owned, and what happened to it?
- Who was your first boss, and what did they teach you?
- What did you and your friends do on a Saturday night at seventeen?
- What’s the best advice your father ever gave you?
- What were you thinking the day I was born?
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